This is a very sad day. We have to surrender one of our cats. As much as I do not want to, as much as it hurts, we have to...A couple of years ago he got crystals in his urine and got blocked up. He had to have a catheder and ever since then we have had a problem with him going outside of the litterbox. We've tried everything...and I do mean everything to solve the problem. Recently he started going on my husband's side of the bed. His problem isn't medical, it's behavioral and I just can't have a cat that continues to do this, especially on the bed. I'm heartbroken and the worst part of it all is that we made this decision this morning after I had left for work. My husband is leaving work early to take him so he will be gone by the time I get home. I don't even get to say goodbye. All I keep thinking about is that he is going to think we don't love him and that we are abandoning him. I'm so sick over this and I've been fighting the tears all day